I believe this is common sense but maybe just maybe I am wrong about this. I mean if you start giving one of your pals an attitude and call them rude or start yelling or using negative behaviour what do you expect them to do say yeah ok youre right what I did I was wrong Im a jerk please forgive me? Uh No I dont think so they will walk off and probably not speak to you for a while however if you are nice to them and how concern ask them not accuse and try to work it out as calmly and as friendly as possible bingo! I think people would get better results as a matter of fact Im99%sure the results would be better but those of you who cannot control your temper and cannot take a time out and insist on giving someone an attitude I have no sympathy for you cause unless the person is insulting themselves ok that might be an idea to rag them out and tell them they are better then that they are a good person but to get rid of your anger please grow up pull youre fucking finger out of your gigantic asshole and think for once use your head! If you are mad go somewhere clear your mind bl9ow your anger out against a wall do something just dont ever give your pals an attitude it can only spell disaster think about it put yourself on the receivers end of it yeah now try the other way them being nice to you and showing concern you feel good cause they and also think well maybe I do need to change I hope someone will listen to this its a real shame that this happens so much but maybe now people will think before they speak!