Ok well the soft touch V.S the rough touch being rough or being friendly to get results varies from situation from situation. I am a peaceful by nature and while I see the results from being rough I still believe it is better to try to be nice first its moral more considerate more thoughtful at least one would of tried to be nice then use the hard way being gentle first I have seen the good and bad results of it I see others using the hard touch but despite the results I want people to stop I dont believe In being mean unless its a last resort I am passionate about being a nice guy very passionate actually. I can be rough when need be but I try my best not to because I have been a victim of the rough touch and in many cases the soft touch could of worked and it has worked I believe that being nice is a better way but the use of the rough touch can be useful but only when necessary when the soft touch fails a few times then try the hard touch