Some people think that others should trust them once they feel they have earned it and think that is the only way to feel and that they should almost ignore their personal feelings or their heart cause they think they have earned, but that is wrong you should always make up your own mind dont let others tell you how to feel never ever let someone control your feelings it is up to you as an individual and not the other person some people say you should feel this way or you should trust m I have seen numerous examples of this and people who think this are greedy now Im not saying trying to help is wrong but there is such thing as too much help and leaving the final decision to the individual to choose to feel this way or that way