Ok I have had people tell me about people who call them up and start using them as a diary literally call them up and think of them as a diary blabbing about how their day went not asking them how their went jut use tem as a diary now using someone as a diary sort of makes them a user its ok to tell someone how their day went but ask them how their day went too instead of blabbering on and on and on. I wish I knew why people did this but it in any case it doesnt show much respect ya know a conversation should be equal and anyone who think I am their diary think I again get a diary write a book get a dog get a tape recorder I can see it now I get someone yapping and it like that scene in last action hero someone call yup huhuh yup uhuh yup ok oh yeah cool wow uhuh yup uhuhu having that taped going over and over again and then playing it on the phone and then walking off and talk to someone else why the person on the phone is talking to a tape recorder that will be a laugh and a half especially if the person find out one day