Ok I have noticed that when feeling uncomfortable with something that someone is doing if that person gets you to explain and keeps on trying to argue about I justify it. Only makes things worse when you are trying to express yourself people must learn to accept others feelings and say ok I understand try o work out a compromise to handle the problem arguing over how someone feels or telling them how to feel is extremely ignorant selfish minded ill mannered and just plane babyish. Everyone feels different about different things that is what makes us individuals